Dore ibanga ryo kuryoherwa n’urukundo benshi batari bazi

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Ubundi mu rukundo bisaba kwitonda iyo ushyizemo ubushishozi buke wicuza icyatumye ukunda.

Niyo mpamvu uyu munsi twagerageje kubakusanyiriza amakosa 6 utagomba gukora mu gihe ushaka kuryoherwa n’urukundo.

Aya ni amakosa 6 dukesha urubuga gukunda.com ugomba kwirinda hakiri kare mu rukundo rwawe rwa buri munsi:

1.Gufata umukunzi wawe nk’ikigirwamana

Yego uramukunda ariko nanone kumuha ubuzima bwawe bwose sibyo, Si umugore/umugabo wawe, ni umukunzi wawe kandi mushobora kugirana ikibazo isaha bikaba byaba ngombwa mugatandukana.

Urakeka ko byakugendekera bite mutandukanye mugihe wamaze kumva ko ariryo herezo ryawe kuko wamufashe nk’ikigirwamana . Mukunde ariko mu buryo burimo ubwenge wimukunda buhumyi kuko ejo byahinduka.

2.Kumarana nawe igihe kinini

Ibi bijya gusa ni ingingo ibanza niba umukunzi wawe umurutisha akazi uri mu buyobe, akazi niko kagufasha kubaho ubuzima bwa buri munsi.

Niko kaguha agaciro mu bandi, Mukunde ariko mugihe gikwiriye Urukundo umukunda ntirugomba kubangamira ibindi.

Tugumye kurugero rw’akazi,numuha uyu mwanya ndetse no kukazi bikakuviramo kwirukanwa, nyuma mukaba mwatandukana wabigenza ute. Kora ikintu mugihe cyacyo.

Wikwihunza umuryango inshuti n’abavandimwe ngo ni uko wabonye umukobwa/umuhungu musigaye mukundana wumva wimariyemo. Ejo atazakwanga cyangwa ukabona impamvu ituma mutandukana ukabura byose.

3.Kumutakazaho amafaranga y’umurengera

Abahungu nibo bakunze kugwa muri iri kosa , gukunda umukobwa ntibivuze kwirarira no gusesagura, Kumumariraho ibyawe byose sibyo bituma agukunda cyane. Uko ukomeza kumuha no kumuteretesha amafaranga ageraho akakubona nk’ikigega k’imari cyangwa umuterankunga we kuruta kuba umukunzi we . Gusa ariko ntibivuze ko aramutse agize ikibazo kuhutirwa gikeneye amafaranga utayamuha ariko wabanje gusuma neza inshingiro ry’ayo mafaranga.

4.Kurengera

Kwirirwa umwandikira ,umuhamagara n’ibindi nkabyo ukarenza urugero sibyiza. Uzatuma akurambirwa. Genera umwanya buri kintu , Kora imirimo ya buri munsi ikureba. Wimukunda ngo urengere ukore n’ibidakorwa, Ibintu iyo bikozwe kurugero rwo hejuru bigira isura mbi.Ihe igihe runaka uzajya umuhamagara niba aba kure cyangwa igihe muzajya muhura niba bishoboka.

5.Gufuha cyane

Abesnhi bkunda kuvuga ko ikimenyetso cy’urukondo ari ugufuha , birashoboka ariko gufuha cyane ukarenza urugero nubigira uziyangiriza ubwonko ute umurongo w’ubuzima mbese muri make umutima wawe ujye uhora uhagaze.

Mugirire icyizere nawe azakigenderaho numufuhira bikabije ejo akaguhemukira, n’abandi bose muzakundana uzajya uhora wumva ko ntakizere wabagirira ubihirwe n’urukundoa aho kurwishimiramo.

6.Kuryamana nawe

Abakobwa nibo bakunda kwishuka ko gukorana imibonanao mpuzabitsina kenshi n’ umuhungu ariko kumugaragariza urukundo. Uribeshya , uko muryamana niko azagufata nk’igikoresho yifashisha mu kwishimisha akubonemo biri hanze, ..nyuma bizarangira agiye kubana akaramata n’abandi bakobwa bafite umutima. Uzisanga warabaswe no gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina nta gitangira kandi wari uziko uri kubikorera urukundo. Iherezo ryawe ni irihe? Uzubaka rukomere?

Yisangize Inshuti.

Ibitekerezo 6

  1. Urukundo ni ikindu gikomeye kuri buri ruhande Umukobwa/Umuhungu niyo mpamvu ntawakagombye kubikinamo niho usanga byabyaye amakimbirane hagati yimpande zombi.

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